Assistance for Caregivers

Caregiving is a tough job. It can be isolating and thankless.

But know that you are not alone in your struggles.

According to the U.S. Department of Health and Human Service, more than 50 million people provide care for a chronically ill, disabled or aged family member or friend each year. Caregiving is such a time-consuming job, which is why it’s important not to neglect your own needs.

Respite Care

Because it is acknowledged that caring for a terminally ill person can be difficult, respite care is available to give the caregiver a rest. It gives the family time to do what needs to be done without the worry of their loved one. Respite care is provided for 5 days. This includes the day of admission, but not counting the day of discharge. This level of care does include room and board fees.

Please call 1.800.261.8636 for more details.

The Caregiver’s Bill of Rights

I have the right:

  • To take care of myself. This is not an act of selfishness. It will give me the capability of taking better care of my relative.
  • To seek help from others even though my relative may object. I recognize the limits of my own endurance and strength.
  • To maintain facets of my own life that do not include the person I care for, just as I would if he or she were healthy.  Know that I do everything that I reasonably can for this person, and I have the right to do some things just for myself.
  • To get angry; be depressed, and express other difficult feelings occasionally.
  • To reject any attempt by my relative (either conscious or unconscious), to manipulate me through guilt, anger, or depression.
  • To receive consideration, affection, forgiveness, and acceptance for what I do from my loved ones for as long as I offer these qualities in return.
  • To take pride in what I am accomplishing and to applaud the courage it has sometimes taken to meet the needs of my relative.
  • To protect my individuality and my right to make a life for myself that will sustain me in the time when my relative no longer needs my full-time help.
  • To expect and demand that as new strides are made in finding resources to aid physically and mentally impaired older persons in our country, similar strides will be made toward aiding and supporting caregivers.
  • To _______________________________(Add your own statements of rights to this list.)

Read this list to yourself every day.
Source: Jo Home, Caregiving: Helping an Aging Loved One, © 1985.